In my early thirties I was a physiotherapist running multiple clinics and living an active lifestyle filled with surfing, kayaking, and mountain bike racing. By the age of thirty-three, everything changed. I had suffered three strokes and lost my ability to walk, swallow, use my left arm, and right eye. After two rounds of brain surgeries, I was told I’d live with permanent disability. My life, as I knew it, would never be the same.
Recovery
The journey back after the surgeries was long and brutal. Years of rehabilitation taught me how to fight for my independence but I was left with chronic pain, fatigue, and limits that rehab couldn’t overcome. It was frustrating, and at times I nearly gave up. The turning point came when I discovered counselling. Talk therapy gave me what physical rehab couldn’t — the tools to manage my thoughts, emotions, and outlook on life. With support, I began to reconnect, cope, find hope again and enjoy life.
Since my strokes I have married and had two beautiful children, re-entered the work force, and gained new qualifications.
Most importantly, while the frustrations of my limitations still exist, I have discovered new ways to lead an enjoyable and fulfilling life.
Why I do this work
My journey inspired me to become a counsellor so I could support other survivors to navigate life after acquiring disability. At Reconstructing With Ryan, I specialise in helping people with acquired disability adjust, rebuild confidence, and create a fulfilling future. I understand the grief, loss, identity shifts, and isolation that can come with acquiring disability. I also know recovery isn’t just physical — it’s about finding meaning and hope again.